HUGE Birthday Celebration Giveaway!

HUGE Birthday Celebration Giveaway!

[[GIVE AWAY TIME!!!]] HOLY FREAKING MIRACLES. It’s been exactly A YEAR since I hit publish on The Unapologetic You: Embrace, Embody & Empower the YOU that’s waiting to be born. What a journey this past set of 525,600 minutes has been.

A journey that’s brought me to my knees in gratitude, thrown my hands up in fury, and softened my heart into certainty that whatever presents itself, I will be held, supported, and challenged in just the right proportion to grow closer to expressing my fullest creative potential in exponential and incredible ways.

A funny thing happens as I go about writing books & pieces – I am given the opportunity to bring to life the journey I am writing about – to fully feel the wisdom of the words on the page, deep within my cells. I wrote The Unapologetic You last year as a declaration and commitment to no longer backing down from the brilliance living inside my heart just because I experienced anxiety and fear.

It was my acknowledgement that there was more to me, and my promise to living in co-creation with that more, more often than the stuff that made me feel less.

And while I had no idea what that would fully look like, or whether anyone would read my words, what has happened has been incredible. So far I’ve been given:

+ 42 homes since the beginning of 2017 (….will be at least 50 by end of the year) – and yet I haven’t left home – my heart – once.
+ Friendships so nourishing and healing and profound that for the first time in my life, I don’t feel alone
+ A driver’s license (aka total freedom) I avoided getting for 27 years
+ More mountaintops summited than elevators ridden + More mornings where I wake up slowly with a smile and soft tears of gratitude than in a flurry of frustration and angst (a HUGE one for me)
+ A feeling of lightness and certainty in my body & movement
+ The chance to study with incredible master teachers who challenge and uplift me
+ More time star gazing and connecting with the Earth than wondering what on Earth I’m doing

And as I’ve danced through the gifts of these sacred moments, I’ve gotten to read beautiful letters from readers of the Unapologetic You sharing messages of healing recognition, breakthrough moments into personal power, renewed hope & determination, my heart has broken wide open in a way I never knew possible.

The biggest gift of this journey has been seeing that in coming closer to Me – the Me that’s just as messy, irresponsible, unforgiving, judgemental, lazy, and directionless, as she is certain, compassionate, devoted, disciplined, unwavering, and hopeful – I am able to come closer to everyone around me. And that….is quickly becoming my definition of bliss.

These tools and community of recognition are for anyone who’s heart longs to go deeper. And I am so honored to have you as a part of it.

As a celebration of my first book baby’s birthday, I want to share some of my favorite things with you!

Between now and November 2nd at midnight PST, you have the chance to win:

First prize: FORGIVE essential oil blend roll on by dôTERRA ($17.33 value)
Second Prize: The White Hot Truth by Danielle Laporte ($17 value)
Third Prize: Meditation Oil Trio Sampler of – Clary Sage, Frankincense, & Balance from
dôTERRA ($22 value)

How to enter:

  1. Click here & purchase a copy of The Unapologetic You with a donation of $10 or more (because #shipping) Note: for every dollar over 10 that you go in your donation, you receive another entry!
  2. Binge read the book.
  3. Make a post on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite quote from the book and tag me (@sarahmillerme) using #theunapologeticyou. Each post share will be counted as one entry, so you can make multiple posts for multiple entries! All posts must be made by Nov 2nd at Midnight PST. Click here for an easy FB share.

It’s that simple!

– Again, the giveaway is only open until November 2nd at midnight PST.
– You must make a donation of $10 or more to be considered for prize entry & every dollar over counts as another entry!
– You must post or email me your favorite quote
– All entries will be thrown into a hat and winners selected at random – Winners will be announced on November 3rd.

If you’re reading this, bummed because you already have a copy, not to worry!!! You can enter too! Here’s how:

  1. Tell a friend about The Unapologetic You – direct them on where to buy a copy – click here for an easy for a Facebook share! – and have them enter your name in the checkout form. Each friend you refer is an entry, the more entries you get the higher chance of a win! 🙂
  2. Make a post on Facebook or Instagram with your favorite quote from the book and tag me (@sarahmillerme) using #theunapologeticyou. Click here for an easy share! Each post share will be counted as one entry, so you can make multiple posts for multiple entries! All posts must be made by Nov 2nd at Midnight PST.

It’s my goal to get the deeply healing message of this book to the hearts of 1,000 people by the end of 2017 – and I need your help!

So! Go grab a copy, share your favorite quotes, and relax into the sweetness sweeping you up into it’s arms as you dance into your spotlight.

Sending you all of the love my heart can hold, and then some! <3 Forever grateful you’re here.

 

Stand, pen in hand, writing the story of your dreams.

Click here & embrace, embody, & empower the Unapologetic You

 

Sarah Miller

Sarah Miller

Author | Sacred Space Holder | Speaker

 

Sarah Miller is author of The Unapologetic You, a sacred space holder, and a speaker. She is currently traveling the world speaking, writing, and holding workshops. To find out when she’ll be in a town near you, be sure to follow her on Instagram and Facebook.

To find out more about how to work with her one on one, click here.

To learn her pillars of living an unapologetic life of miracles, click here.

 

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Forgiving myself for all the times I’ve been the one to hurt.

Forgiving myself for all the times I’ve been the one to hurt.

Forgiving myself for all the times I've been the one to hurt.

Forgiveness is a dense subject – and it’s also quite simple.

I haven’t talked as much about it recently because I’ve been working through the process myself. Understanding it on a deeper level. Like sipping wine, each time you swish it around in your mouth, you get an even richer experience of the depth available in the flavor profile.

I’ve been humbled and wowed by what has poured forth for me to work through. The situations bringing about unavoidable awareness that I have been abusing myself in subtle ways, holding inward resentment for all of the times I have been the one to hurt someone. And thus, in pain, sharing that pain with people around me, rather than the joy I always wish to give.

All of that has been playing itself out in subtle actions and choices. Choices that lead me to have to wait another month for this. Another year for that. Not returning a phone call here, and feeling guilty for days later there. Causing brain fog and exhaustion that spiral out into loads of other things. It’s the simplest things. Like phone calls and emails, causing me to miss out on what I want. Causing me to act out of accordance with the highest version of myself. And all on my fault. I’ve been the one causing the chaos. No one else.

Over the last six months or so, I’ve engaged in a daily practice of gently writing letters, asking forgiveness of those I’ve hurt (not sending, but just in conversation with the Soul), sending prayers, and doing meditations to release the pain filled ties, transmuting them into grace filled containers of growth. Watching how, as I do, my external choices completely shift 180 without any conscious effort. Suddenly I’m able to show up as the person I always wanted to be. Returning phone calls on time. Truly being able to show up and connect with the people I care about. Dance together through this thing called life. Meeting deadlines with ease. Making food choices that feel delicious. And adventuring in ways that makes my heart expand bigger than it ever knew possible. Ultimately, being able to share more joy and more of myself with the world.

And while the work is by NO means complete, I feel renewed. Refreshed. And more vulnerable and tender than ever. Which, contrary to what I always believed would happen, has turned out to be the state which I also feel most alive. Most free.

 


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Admitting to ourselves all of the times when we have failed someone else is one of the most critical things we must do – daily, really. Our shortcomings shows us where our work is. Where we need to get better. Where we are meant to grow. There is no need to beat ourselves up for it. There is simply a need to consciously acknowledge it, and rather than hiding from it, pretending it didn’t happen, living in denial about it, and repeating it over and over again, make the commitment to use the experience learn, and to show up better, more humble, more aware and compassionate than ever. 

When we fail someone else, when we pass on a hurt we’re experiencing inside somewhere, we’re also showing ourselves where we are still carrying a baton of pain that was handed to us at some point in time. We’re being shown all the places we’re hanging on to baggage we don’t need anymore. As the beautiful cycle of life works out, in forgiving ourselves for our shortcomings and mess ups, not only do we get to free ourselves from guilt and step into the world as more compassionate, patient, understanding human beings, but we get to drop an entire line of pain from the moment it began, generations ago. We’re doing preventative maintenance for all our relationships going forward. Whatever form they take!

It’s important work – dropping the batons of fear and hurt and pain that we’ve all been passing around – just because they were handed off to us.

And my prayer for you is that you cultivate the awareness within yourself daily to be able recognize this work when it arises. To see not personal attacks, but cries for help, for love, for understanding. The cry for permission to drop the pain and the struggle and return back to love, innocence, and understanding. The cry for help in rejoining the world of harmony. And that you have gone through your own process of cleansing so that you can meet these cries, not with your own fears, but with the ever present wellspring of nurturing love that lives inside of you.

Isn’t what we’re all really doing when we hurt those around us? Hoping they’ll see that we’re scared, and don’t know how to ask for help? That we’re overwhelmed, and can’t find ourselves, and need someone there to hold our hand as we do? It’s no different for those who put us on the receiving end of their fear. So let’s meet these cries with what they’re asking for. Within ourselves first, so that we can meet the ones around us with the same love.

We do this work so we can show up and have more fun together. Create deeper and more meaningful relationships with one another. Embark on adventures full of magic together. There is a point! And it’s a magical one. So I invite you to pause daily and clear out the spaces of pain, fog, dread, doubt, to set down the batons of pain, and dance freely in the joy of life around you. It’s more urgent than ever.

I was grateful to be reminded of this passage [PASTED BELOW] from The Unapologetic You today as I was reviewing all things Forgiveness for the Essentoily You crew. Piecing together such a beautiful exploration of all that I’ve learned and come across on the subject – stepping back and recognizing how all of the little seeds have blossomed into beautiful flowers of awakening.

I couldn’t not share. I hope it served your heart a bit of peace, and gave you a little something to reflect through over the next few days.

If you’d like to engage in a daily practice for self awareness and forgiveness but aren’t sure where to start, The Unapologetic You outlines the very process I’ve been using to write my letters. Grab a copy & make a commitment to yourself to dive in.

So grateful for you. For this life. For this gift of time and space to reflect. And for this opportunity to share.

If you’re interested in a deeper exploration of forgiveness and renewal of the body, mind and spirit using this work, hit reply and let’s chat about making that happen. I’d love to have you as a part of the 12-week immersion I lead <3

All the love and gratitude,

Sarah

Trade a life of seeking to understand for a life of living what you already know.

Click here to join me for a 12-week essential oil immersion.

Sarah Miller

Sarah Miller

Author | Sacred Space Holder | Speaker

 

Sarah Miller is author of The Unapologetic You, a sacred space holder, and a speaker. She is currently traveling the world speaking, writing, and holding workshops. To find out when she’ll be in a town near you, be sure to follow her on Instagram and Facebook.

To find out more about how to work with her one on one, click here.

To learn her pillars of living an unapologetic life of miracles, click here.

 

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On being in a coma + trapped by my thoughts.

On being in a coma + trapped by my thoughts.

Do you ever feel like you just want to claw your way out of your own head and go take a break from being you for awhile, because it’s just too damn much to be in your thoughts AND have the entire world asking all that they’re asking of you each day?

Yea. Me too.

In fact, when I was a little girl, I wholeheartedly believed that my life was actually a comatose dream that I was having. I thought that I was lying in a coma in a hospital somewhere, and my whole family was there, standing around me, waiting for the day I’d wake up.

I could see and smell the hospital room. Could see and feel myself lying there in one of those dreadful, but really comfy hospital gowns. Could hear everyone around me, talking about how much they loved me and couldn’t wait for me to wake up. Could smell their watered down hospital coffee and fruit cups. I wanted to wake up so badly and smile at them all, but no matter how close I got, I’d always seem to drift back into the nightmarish dream I was having….my life.

There would be moments where I would hear them say, “Oh! She made a little move! She’s coming back!” and these were the most excruciating moments for me. I was so close, but I just couldn’t break back through and into my body. Couldn’t get back into the life where my dad was gentle and loving, free of his destructive, deceitful and abusive mind. The life where my mom was alive, and laughing, free of the chains of darkness she’d been manipulated into. The life where my brother and I loved each other and wanted to play together.

Exhausted and frustrated – no, exhausted and defeated, I’d drift back into the dream I was having, landing where I’d left off, crying and feeling trapped, powerless, and hopeless.

Sometimes, in this space of resign, I’d close my eyes, and find myself wandering down a lane that I knew as Ghost town. The inbetween. The no man’s land separating the me in a coma, waiting to wake up, and the me in the dream. I would see myself walking down this deserted, dusty street, lined with incredibly tall beige buildings.

As I walked, I was searching for the exit. The exit from the nightmare back into my body where I’d wake up, and be in a life that wasn’t a horror story on the nightly news. But no matter how long I walked, that exit never seemed to appear.

I found myself in this middle ground often. Searching and searching. Walking and walking. Sometimes someone else would show up, chase me, I’d get scared, and have to run into a door that just lead me back to where I didn’t want to be. Thinking back, I wonder if all those people who showed up were really there to show me the exit door I was looking for, but I was so scared that I couldn’t even let them get close enough to know….

As I walked that corridor, the ground would disappear sometimes, and I’d see my family and my body lying in the hospital beneath me, and yell at the top of my lungs, “I’m here! Help me! I want to come back! I want to wake up! Guys, I’m here! Can you see me? Can you hear me?”

And nothing. The ground would reappear. And I’d solemnly meander forward. Losing more and more faith with each step.

I was trapped outside of my life. The life I was supposed to be living. I was trapped outside of the self I was meant to be. And I didn’t understand what I did to deserve any of it.

 


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I forget when exactly this hazy reality in my head started to dissipate, and I saw that my “dream” was my actual life – that I wasn’t going to wake up in a hospital bed someday, with family and friends around me, waiting to take me home. But I think it was around the same time that I graduated high school and moved out.

I’d given up hope on ever being freed from the pain of knowing there was a reality just beyond my reach with all that I wanted, and I didn’t have what it took to get there. And I just resigned to the nightmare.

Eventually, my resignation to the nightmare almost killed me. And if I wanted to stay alive, even if just in the nightmare, I had to learn a new way of being. I had to try freeing myself if I wanted to experience any glimmer of that life I’d been waiting to wake up in. Lying on my bed one day, I understood.

I never opened any doors. I just kept walking. I had resigned way before now. Of course I could never get out.

So, ever so slowly, I moved out of resignation, back into action, and started opening doors. And found my way out of the intense suffering I’d lived in for so long. The excruciating pain of being able to see my life, but not connect with it. Not be fully there and present to experience it. These were slowly replaced by softened, and often overwhelming sensations of feeling for the first time….ever. Waves of emotion so different than anything I’d ever experienced. And I started to feel my heart. I started to feel my Soul. I started to feel a part of me that was bigger than the little me trying to find a way out of this whole mess. I started to feel that comfort I’d been longing for my whole life.

The experience of being held and cared for. Of being valued, seen, and heard. I started to breathe. And over time, the feeling of being trapped gently slipped away.

I share this with you because I know I’m not alone in this experience of feeling trapped on the outside of my own life – and resigning to suffering. Letting it harden me and push me out of the possibility of being free.

At one point or another, we all experience that thing that makes the fire of helpless fury burn in our belly. Be it an emotional crisis we can’t see a way out of, a financial situation, a relationship, a disease or illness, a job, we’ve all experienced that banging against a wall only to get blood and tears slapped back on us.

I see so many people trapped in this space, and it breaks my heart. Because I know how much it hurts. I know how awful it is. And while I can’t say I have all the answers, what I do have is a roadmap out. Which you’re probably now like, OKAY SARAH, THIS IS GREAT…BUT CAN YOU TELL ME HOW TO DO THIS?! I’M BURNING ALIVE HERE. Well….

It starts with stepping out of internal resignation to being trapped. It starts with acknowledging that, even though it’s scary, you can turn around an open a door – and you will. You have no option. You can get out. Even if you don’t see how. You can. You just have to be willing to invest yourself in the experience of it. Let go of the shame, the fear, forgive yourself, and begin again, It’s not too late. You don’t have to run from it anymore.

My request of you right now is that YOU DO NOT RESIGN. YOU DO NOT GIVE UP FAITH. YOU KEEP WALKING TOWARD YOUR OWN PERSONAL FREEDOM. And if you want more structured help, I’d be happy to guide you.

Today is the last day to enroll in Essentoily You at the low price of $483. At midnight it’ll go up $300 to $783.

You deserve to live a life where you experience all the fierce connection and awe that you crave. Where you’re not in tears of frustration because you can’t figure out how to slip back into the body and the mind and the life you know is there, waiting to play in the world. But rather, you live in tears of wonderment and beauty.

You deserve a life where you’re playing full on. Where you’re being breathed by your dreams. Allowing them to move your body through this world, surprising and delighting it.

I know this is possible. I’ve been on both sides of the equation. It’s not just a dream. It can be a reality. And I say that with utmost compassion and confidence for the part of me that still doesn’t quite believe that.

I know, without question, that this Essentoily You community that has gathered together for this 12-week experience will help you not just see this, but experience it.

I’ve walked through that wild west, and I found a way out. And I would love for you to open this door so all of us can come walk with and support you on your own journey back to your Self.

Click here to join. You’ve got until the 20th to figure it out, but do know that the price goes up significantly tonight.

If you have any questions about the program, payment plans, or more resources for how to move back into your life, please email me at sarah [at] sarahmiller [dot] me. I’d love to chat with you.

Honored, humbled, and grateful to be here with you. Thank you.

All of my love to you,

Sarah

Trade a life of seeking to understand for a life of living what you already know.

Click here to join me for a 12-week essential oil immersion.

Sarah Miller

Sarah Miller

Author | Sacred Space Holder | Speaker

Sarah Miller is author of The Unapologetic You, a sacred space holder, and a speaker. She is currently traveling the world speaking, writing, and holding workshops. To find out when she’ll be in a town near you, be sure to follow her on Instagram and Facebook.

To find out more about how to work with her one on one, click here.

To learn her pillars of living an unapologetic life of miracles, click here.

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